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MIDL 15min 03 / 20: 'Softening Into' Breathing

by Stephen Procter

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New to MIDL? 15 Minutes of Mindfulness is an introductory series to the MIDL 52 Mindfulness Meditation Trainings. 3/20 is the MIDL Mindfulness Training of the 'Softening Into' skill used for Mindful Non-participation with experienced unpleasantness to train the Second MIDL Pillar of Softening Into. Practice daily for one week before moving to the next exercise Have a question? Insight Timer Group: MIDL Mindfulness in Daily Life with Stephen Procter. Private question? Send me a message.

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Transcript

During this meditation you will develop the skill of using slow diaphragmatic breathing to bring deep relaxation to your body and calm to your mind.

If you just start out by taking your meditation posture,

Either seated or lying down,

Then simply start to be aware of what it feels like just to be here in the room.

Tune into any sounds around you and allow the flow,

The change within the sound to hold your attention.

Tune into any sounds around you and allow the flow,

The change within the sound to hold your attention.

Now we're going to learn to take some softening breaths using our diaphragm.

Placing your palms below your belly button,

Fingers lightly touching in the middle.

It's helpful to press in slightly so that you can feel the movement of your breathing.

Now to breathe in,

Slowly extend the lower part of your abdomen away from your body.

Notice how it lifts your palms and slowly lower it back again to allow the breath to go out.

To breathe in,

Slowly extend the lower part of your abdomen away from your body and to breathe out,

Slowly lower it back again.

Keeping this movement gentle,

Free from strain.

Repeat it a few times to get a feeling of this movement.

Notice how extending the lower part of your abdomen away from your body draws the breath in through your nose.

Notice how lowering it back again makes the breath go out through your nose.

Think of this movement as like a handle on a pump.

As you slowly extend it outwards,

The breath draws in.

As you slowly lower it back again,

The breath goes out.

As you slowly lower it back again,

The breath goes out.

As you slowly lower it back again,

The breath goes out.

Now we are going to learn to take a full softening breath.

Leaving one palm below your belly button,

Place the other on the top of your chest.

Starting the breath in your belly,

Pushing your ribs out slightly and bringing the breath up to the top of your chest filling you up.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

Taking another breath in,

Starting the breath in your belly,

Moving it up through your ribs to the top of your chest,

Lifting you up.

And slowly allowing the breath out,

Allowing your shoulders to drop,

Your chest,

Your upper back,

Relax.

The in,

Belly,

Ribs,

Chest,

Slowly out and relax.

Starting with that out breath.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

We are going to allow the breathing to happen naturally now.

Not controlling the breathing in any way.

As you release your breathing,

Feel that breath flow freely and naturally within your body.

As the breathing calms down it becomes more gentle,

More subtle.

As the breathing calms down it becomes more gentle,

More subtle.

Notice how calming this movement is.

And as it calms it naturally moves gently within your belly.

To relax you deeper.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

And slowly allowing that breath out to relax.

Now bringing awareness back into your body.

And becoming aware of any sounds around you.

Allowing those sounds to come into you.

And when you're ready you can gently open your eyes.

Thank you for spending this time meditating with me.

Take care of yourself and have a wonderful day.

Meet your Teacher

Stephen ProcterMylestom NSW 2454, Australia

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Recent Reviews

Bryan

July 10, 2022

This was very good. I've always had problems with breath meditations because I seem to get off rhythm or short of air but this was much better. I think I can improve going forward πŸ™

Carla

June 1, 2022

A great exercise in softening. Amazing how calm and centered it leaves me after just 15 minutes. I will come back to this often, when I don't have time for one of a longer meditation; it leaves me prepared for the day, or the next stecche of the day. Thank you once again for another addition to my toolchest.

M

May 20, 2022

Enjoying this series. Simple and effective, no fluff. Gratitude for creating and sharing πŸ™

Esben

March 4, 2022

Wonderfully relaxing, calming and presence-bringing 😊

Mitch

February 25, 2022

Wonderfully relaxing, and informative to take throughout the day as a reference for peace and tranquillity. Thank you Steven.

China

December 24, 2021

Loved the softening of my body - aches fell away. I began to feel like a pyramid. I will use my sits bones’ connection to the ground as a present moment awareness touchstone today.

Susana

November 28, 2021

I love your meditations. You are a great tepaches to me

Greg

June 27, 2021

Excellent! Am trained in Zen Buddhism and am appreciative of your meditations, thank you!

Gabriel

October 9, 2020

i've been meditating a while on the midl 15 min series and i love it. it's been helping me improve a lot. there's so much to learn

Amanda

August 21, 2020

Very very good. Thanks again Stephen πŸ™πŸΌ

Janan

October 11, 2019

Lovely calming voice, and perfect for a quick relaxation at the start of the day or the end. Thank you πŸ™πŸ˜Š

Bruna

October 11, 2019

You are an amazing teacher, I feel like I’m achieving more and more progress as I follow the episodes and practice them weekly, as you suggest, before moving on to the next. Thank you so much for sharing your gift with us. πŸ™πŸ»βœ¨

Jay

May 10, 2019

Thank you πŸ™πŸΌ for pointing me to retrain on the Softening Into skills. I had success establishing deeper levels of tranquility for brief periods of time. I’ll practice this for few more days before going back to 6. Was able to observe the habitual patterns of resistance in my mind that you referred.

Louise

April 3, 2019

My husband has severe anxiety and depression (he’s been hospitalised twice for it). He finds deep breathing very difficult. Do you have any advice about how he can develop his diaphragmatic breathing?

JP

March 23, 2019

This is a an excellent series. Thank you. I discovered this on reddit when someone pointed you out as one of the top teachers on Insight timer.

Cris

February 3, 2019

Im in the 3rd consecutive day and loving it. Very helpfull, thanks a lot. 🌟

ELI

January 26, 2019

Allowed me to go deeper with my breath, really helpful. Thank you

E

January 26, 2019

Allowed me to go deeper with my breath, really helpful. Thank you

Peter

November 12, 2018

Very good exercise. I remain calm the whole day through.

Leslie

October 13, 2018

Excellent breathing exercise

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