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MIDL 15min 18 / 20: Softening Pleasantness

by Stephen Procter

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New to MIDL? 15 Minutes of Mindfulness is an introductory series to the MIDL 52 Mindfulness Meditation Trainings. 18/20 is the MIDL Mindfulness Training of the 'Softening Into' skill used for Mindful Non-participation with experienced pleasantness to train the Second MIDL Pillar of Softening Into. Practice daily for one week before moving to the next exercise Have a question? Insight Timer Group: MIDL Mindfulness in Daily Life with Stephen Procter. Private question? Send me a message.

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Transcript

Hello,

My name is Stephen Proctor.

Start out by taking a meditation posture.

Now close your eyes over lightly and start to be aware of the feeling of your body sitting or lying down.

Start to notice the experience of heaviness within your body.

Now gently place one hand within the other.

Be aware of what it feels like when your hands touch each other.

Really hold in mind the sensations of touch such as softness,

Warmth or coolness.

Now I'd like you to bring up a memory,

A memory of a pleasant experience from the past.

Hold that memory in mind.

Notice that when you hold that memory in mind a pleasant feeling arises.

Notice that when you hold this pleasant memory in mind you can feel a pleasant feeling arise within your body.

Can you feel an emotion associated with that memory within your body?

Now gently hold that pleasantness within your body in your mind.

And now I'd like you to use your breathing to soften into,

Relax into the pleasantness.

Holding the pleasantness in mind gently take a slow deep breath deep into your belly.

With a slow gentle breath out relax into,

Soften into the pleasant feeling.

Gently breathing in.

With a slow gentle breath out soften into the pleasantness within your body even more.

Breathing in.

Breathing out softening even more.

Keep using slow gentle breaths to soften into,

Relax into that pleasantness.

Notice how the pleasantness softens.

Notice as the pleasantness softens the memory dissolves.

Notice how the pleasantness softens and the memory dissolves when you use gentle breathing to relax soften into that pleasantness.

Now I'd like you to make a half smile on your face.

Allow the pleasant feeling,

Encourage the pleasant feeling to fill every cell of your body.

Now gently using the softening into breathing.

I'd like you to breathe into that pleasantness and encourage it to grow.

Gently using your softening into breathing.

Breathe that pleasantness down your arms.

Gently soften into and breathe the pleasantness into your head,

Chest and back.

Breathing the pleasantness into your belly.

Through your legs and feet.

And into every cell of your body.

Gently using your softening into breathing.

Now bring your awareness back to the touch of your hands.

Gently holding the touch of your hands in mind.

The pressure,

The softness,

Coolness,

Warmth.

Notice the simplicity of being present.

Just here,

Now.

Notice that when you hold that touch of your hands in mind,

Your attention is held present.

Right here,

Right now.

No past,

No future,

Just here.

Notice how simple just being here is.

Just sensations within your body.

Just sounds.

Just thoughts.

They all flow.

Come and go within now.

Just being here,

Just now.

Notice how simple it is just to be.

Just being here,

Just now.

Now bring your awareness back into your body.

Notice the feeling of your body just being here.

Be aware of the experience of heaviness throughout your body.

Be aware of any sounds around you,

Allow the sounds to come into you.

And now when you're ready,

You can gently open your eyes.

Be aware of seeing,

Be aware of being in the room.

Thank you for spending this time with me.

Take care of yourself and goodbye.

Meet your Teacher

Stephen ProcterMylestom NSW 2454, Australia

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Recent Reviews

Zana

April 2, 2025

Thank you for another great guided meditation. It felt very nice to have the pleasurable feelings spread throughout my body. I have a question though, is it normal for the feelings of pleasentness to be so strong that sometimes your muscles uncontrollably jerk and twitch? It doesn't bother me or disturb my focus much but it happens very often and I wanted to know if this is a common thing. Thank you again.

China

January 20, 2022

Loved extending my joyful memory into my whole body: wow! Also loved softening into the present monent: really good.

Trev

September 25, 2020

very nice. a great practice. thanks.

Ann

September 10, 2020

Amazing. Simply resting in present moment, not for long but enough. πŸ™β€οΈ

Marilyn

March 11, 2020

Rarely have I felt the sense of being present as strongly yet effortlessly than with this meditation. Grateful thanks from me and my monkey-mind. πŸ™πŸŽˆπŸŽˆ

Eugène

July 10, 2019

Sometimes it is hard to focus on one Good experience. Is it Oke to have more? Because me mind change from one to an other. And Maybe there for the feeling does not really Come in to me So clear.?

Johan

May 14, 2019

Very interesting to allocate an old feeling to the body. But what is the general purpose of this practice? To feel good? All your sessions are great!

Paul

July 4, 2018

Awesome, some beautiful moments to enjoy in this meditation

Claire

May 13, 2018

A lovely meditation. Thank you.

Aleksandra

March 23, 2018

Thank you, it was such a beautiful experience.

Sergio

March 21, 2018

Thanks again Stephen! To know you and follow all your guided meditations during a long time and now doing it time to time in between of my own not guided ones, is helping me to keep on learning , to keep motivated and engage. What is more inportant is how it influence in my daily life, making me a more happy person and more relax, I learned with you specially to observe when the attention goes away and how to bring it back, and how importa t is to think well and desire good for everyone and everything. This is also a very inportant guided meditation that helps you to release, to free up your mind for a while from future and past thinkings, leading to a relaxing time with a high level of concentation Thanks again Stephen, be well, be happy, be safe. πŸ™πŸ»

Lydia

March 13, 2018

Beautiful practice. Thank you.

Lhakyi

February 16, 2018

Thank you! This meditation helped me to relax into a very comfortable state of mind and body.

Katie

August 22, 2017

Very nice holding the pleasant feeling in my whole body. I started smiling before being prompted. Thank you.

Carolyn

August 1, 2017

Absolutely beautiful! Will be doing this again, thank you.

Kimberly

August 1, 2017

So soothing, πŸ‘Œβ€οΈπŸ€—

Danielle

August 1, 2017

Deeply moving as always with your meditations. Thank you.πŸ’™

marykay

July 31, 2017

Very relaxing -thank you

Ben

July 31, 2017

Great approach to rest and relaxing

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