
Feeling Good ~ Shift Your Emotional State
by Selena Lael
We are all experts at thinking about what we don't want, what we don't like, what doesn't feel good. In this powerful, yet simple practice, we will cultivate the ability to access the feelings we do want without needing to change external circumstances. Allow your whole being to relax as this guided meditation supports you moving into more of the emotional experience that you are wanting to feel.
Transcript
Welcome.
Let's begin by taking a few deep rounds of breath in and out.
Deep breath in.
And then exhale with a sigh.
Inhale.
Exhale with a sigh.
One more.
Allow the body to begin to settle.
The shoulders relax down.
The belly softens.
The whole body begins to let go and relax with each breath.
Even the small muscles around the eyes and mouth,
The forehead begin to soften.
Let's take a conscious breath into the belly.
A conscious breath into the solar plexus that's spaced where the ribs meet in the belly.
And a conscious breath into the heart.
Allow there to be a slight part between the lips.
The jaw is soft and the breath is natural.
Bring our awareness now to the sensations in the body.
Without any judgment or need to shift,
Move,
Or change the body,
Let's simply notice.
Notice if there is warmth or coolness.
Areas that feel soft and relaxed.
Areas that feel more constricted.
Just begin to see what's happening in the body right now.
And then let's take a breath together.
As we bring our awareness now to the thoughts,
What is happening in the mind?
Maybe the thoughts are in the future wondering what's going to happen or thinking of things that need to be completed.
Or maybe it's in the past replaying a story over and over again of something that's already happened.
Again,
Free of judgment,
Let us notice what is happening in the mind.
The thoughts naturally arise,
So let us simply notice.
And let's take another breath together.
As we bring our awareness now to the emotions,
So often our experience of our emotions is that of a pool of muddy water or maybe a numbness.
So again,
Free from judgment,
Nothing to change,
There's nothing wrong with any emotional experience.
Can we simply become aware of the emotions that are present?
You might find at first there is a strong emotional experience.
And then you might notice that there's another emotion,
Another feeling underneath that,
And then another underneath that.
Simply become aware in this moment how am I feeling.
And another breath together.
Allow the thoughts to settle as we bring the awareness now to the breath.
We'll begin breathing in a specific rhythm together for a few minutes.
Let's begin by exhaling all of the air first.
And then through the nose,
We'll inhale for four,
Three,
Two,
One,
Gently pause,
Hold the breath,
Shoulders are relaxed.
And then exhale through the nose,
Four,
Three,
Two,
One,
Gently pause,
Hold the breath.
Inhale through the nose,
Four,
Three,
Two,
One,
Pause and hold.
Exhale through the nose,
Four,
Three,
Two,
One,
Pause and hold.
And then exhale,
Continue breathing in this rhythm with your own body's natural pace.
Pausing at the top and the bottom of the breath,
We'll be here for a couple of minutes together.
The jaws relaxed,
The face is soft.
And a couple more rounds of breath like this.
And then allow the breath to be natural flowing in and out.
Remember a time now when you felt a great sense of contentment,
Of satisfaction,
Of feeling like there's nothing missing,
This sense of great ease.
Recall what that felt like in your body.
And now bring to mind a situation in your life where you find yourself longing to experience something different,
Have a different feeling inside.
Maybe it's in a relationship,
You're wanting to feel more harmony,
More understanding,
Or joy.
Maybe it's in your career,
Your job,
Wanting to feel more satisfaction,
More abundance.
Notice an area in your life where you're wanting to have a different feeling.
And know that whatever is there,
Whatever is arising is okay.
It's okay to want something different.
Great.
Now let's let that thought be.
Let's take another deep breath in and sigh.
And again,
Another breath in and sigh.
One more.
One more.
Feel your body settled,
The belly soft,
The shoulders relaxed.
And now recall a time in your life where you felt that experience that you're wanting to have in this situation.
For example,
If I'm wanting to experience more joy in my relationship,
Joy is the experience that I'm wanting.
And I'm going to recall in this moment a time when I felt tremendous joy.
So whatever that experience is that you are wanting to feel more of,
Joy,
Peace,
Contentment,
Recall a time in your life that you felt that.
Remember how your body felt in that moment.
That feeling expanding through your body.
Remember the way the temperature felt.
Remember that moment when you felt that.
Remember the way the temperature felt.
What did you see around you?
Maybe it was a person or nature or another moment.
Remember what you saw when you felt that feeling.
How were your thoughts in that moment?
How was the body?
Were you smiling?
Were you expressive through your body?
Allow this feeling to grow inside of you as you remember how it felt.
Imagine yourself waking up in the morning with this feeling.
The moment you open your eyes,
This feeling is with you,
This joy,
Peace,
Contentment,
Strength,
Whatever that is for you.
How would you be as you got out of bed and moved through your morning?
How would your first interactions with your family or those around you be?
How would it feel?
How would it be moving into your day?
Maybe going to work,
Moving into a hobby?
How would it be with this good feeling?
See yourself move through your whole day from this space of this wonderful feeling inside.
See yourself move through your whole day from this space of this wonderful feeling inside.
So beautiful.
Let's take a breath again together.
Feel the warmth of this good feeling living inside of you.
Feel the space of this feeling that you've allowed to awaken,
This feeling that was already inside of you.
This feeling that you can take with you wherever you go by simply remembering how it feels.
Begin to sense the room around you,
The sounds,
The body.
And as you're ready,
Slowly open the eyes with the awareness of this good feeling.
See through the eyes of this feeling.
As always,
Practice allows the brain and the body to become familiar with this new experience,
This new information.
The more you practice feeling this good feeling and even imagining your life filled with this good feeling,
The more it will become second nature and effortlessly arise on its own.
Repetition,
Repetition,
Repetition.
Thank you so much for sharing this experience with me.
With great love.
4.8 (2 222)
Recent Reviews
Rhiannon
January 18, 2026
Thank you. A powerful and thoughtful guided meditation to start my day. May you be well, happy and blessed π€β¨
Nia
July 26, 2025
I will definitely return to this to get me through these opressive times π
Kate
May 28, 2025
Thank you! An excellent and effective meditation which reproduced the experience of the positive feeling/attitude I needed and shifted my state. I will definitely do this again.
Aleah
July 25, 2024
Relaxing, and loved happy feeling and how to access it!
Nick
April 9, 2024
As with many things in our lives, consistency is key. Thanks for the reminder. I loved this session and was complete immersed. Thanks for sharing with the community Selena
Michelle
March 4, 2024
So helpful to start my Monday! Iβm still feeling a bit of dread each start of the week on Sundays and Monday morningsβ¦ not now after your lovely meditation on how to change the way I feel. To manifest how to feel good thus is a brilliant set of steps, thank you so much. I really appreciate you staying with us or in touch with us here on IT. You were one of my first teachers here when Lives began during the pandemic. Iβd been meditating on here to the Tibet prior. Many of us came through that time with such growth in our practice and emotional wellbeing because of your words, your presence, your guidance. THANK YOU ππΌπποΈπββοΈπβ₯οΈππΌππΌππΌ
Mickey
September 13, 2023
Thank you always, Selena, for being a faithful guide and companion in this journey. Love, Mickey
Sienna
August 1, 2023
The somatic practice of being mindful of my body to help reinvite good feelings was great. Thank you
Sharon
June 14, 2023
Loved this! Will come back to this meditation again. Thank you!ππ½
rubina
April 20, 2023
Absolutely wonderfully relaxing. Thank you so much for this offering. ππ»π
Pamela
April 12, 2023
Beautiful, compassionate practice of positive visualization. Helped me find a healing mindset as I recover from surgery. Thank you. Namaste. π
Tatyana
January 18, 2023
Amazing meditation ! Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom , Selena ! β€οΈπ
Robin
December 23, 2022
Thank you for this meditation. It was soothing and I loved the breathwork πππ½
Esther
December 8, 2022
I love listening to you and it's a very soothing beautifully calming meditation. Thank you very much β€οΈπβ¨π§‘ much love and blessings π
Daniela
July 31, 2022
One of the best meditations I have done , thanks so much ππ§π»ββοΈNamaste π₯°
Shana
July 9, 2022
A beautiful π§ meditation! Perfectly peaceful way to start the day. I will visit often. Thank you so much for this gift!
Nancy
June 15, 2022
Exactly what I needed today. Your voice is so nurturing and your cadence and pace allowed me to drop inward. Loved the imagery - very helpful. Thankyou !!!
Fran
May 29, 2022
This meditation was so calming and relaxing allowing me to start my day filled with joy.
Odalys
May 10, 2022
Wonderful! So grateful for this and all your meditations.ππΌππ»
Esia
May 4, 2022
Thank you, I struggled for 5 min to even recall when I felt pure joy the last time, then I remembered a few moments 1 year ago and cracked up
